Angie Zapata in Greeley, CO

iwillkillfrankluntz Says:

May 1, 2009 - You're trespassing. My life has somehow brought me in touch with three people who didn't know eachother, for whom being told "go back to therapy" might've eventually worked, but maybe they would've ended in spontaneous combustion as well. Hard science hasn't anything yet, but who knows. Wonko does? Because he found the definition of BDD? I know at least one therapist who's treated both. Until there's some actual scientific test we just do what seems to work best for the individual.

iwillkillfrankluntz Says:

May 1, 2009 - and maybe, perhaps, they won't find something, but I'm wondering what you'd say if they eventually did? That perhaps society shouldn't treat such delicate issues in such a rigid, dismissive manner? That what we already know may not apply to what we are currently questioning? That lay-people should not comment the matter? What truism would you allege applies?

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - Listen, angry person who now shows me exactly what I knew to be true, you need THERAPY for you to try to understand why you have this psychosis that if only you were a woman your life would be all better. This is the very definition of BDD. You need treatement for you to see beyond your mental illness. Do you think that sugery might be the right thing for, say, someone who feels that his arm is evil and by getting rid of it his life would be better? No. So why should...

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - ...any doctor listen to a patient who tells him that if only his gender could be changed, his life would be better? Those with BDD who have a fixation on an arm, for instance, strap the arm down, mutilate it and otherwise pretend it isn't there. Now, if your honest, tell me that you don't do something similar with your gender? That you don't wear womens clothing and makeup and strap down your penis and loathe touching your penis and so on. Your are suffering from a PSYCHOSIS.

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - That you can't see this and want to try to normalize your psychosis is typical OF the psychosis. Much like a person who is a paranoid schizophrenic. They can't see OUT of the delusions. Your ill and need treatment. It is really just too bad that some doctors have become PC enough to buy into your delusion...it only helps strengthen it. Here's a last piece of advice for you. Read up on post op trannies. Their REAL stories will come as something of a surprise to you, I would imagine.

iwillkillfrankluntz Says:

May 1, 2009 - Listen, I can't make you stop yapping anymore than I can make a dog stop yapping at me. Do you really care what the trannies do? Do you know the difference between living as one gender or the other, and living as a person without an arm? You KNOW things? You KNOW what goes on with EVERY tranny? Or you love, love, LOVE to be right? Look, it's not even me I'm talking about. I was born a woman, but whatever. Anyone who defends a tranny must be a tranny. You've just broken your veneer of calm.

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - Post op trannies who talk about the reality of being post op talk about how they really were surprised that becoming a women (or man) really wasn't the "pie in the sky" experience they thought it would be. They still had bills to pay and life to live and it really didn't make things "all better". By the way, once your pee pee is gone, no more orgasms. Modern science can't build a clit, you see. Or... If your a women to man, they CAN build a functional penis, but it has no feeling.

iwillkillfrankluntz Says:

May 1, 2009 - And honestly, why the hell should I listen to you, either? You wanna go invade some therapist office, or a doctors office, and say "this patient has BDD! Don't help them!" Hurrah. Go to it, you prick. Get arrested, go to jail or something. See how much your convictions matter to you. I'm done with your type. My anger makes you correct, like any other armchair knowitall.

iwillkillfrankluntz Says:

May 1, 2009 - "no more orgasms" There, you see? Trannies do orgasm. Some of them. It depends. And oh yeah, some of them do regret it. Not all of them. Like I knew it, you take what you want to hear, apply it to every one of them. To what end? What does this do for you? Nothing. It just spreads lies.

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - No, it is telling the truth to a deeply delusional person. Well, go ahead with your "pie in the sky" fantasies.

iwillkillfrankluntz Says:

May 1, 2009 - You know, hunny? It's not about making "everything better". It's just about getting one particularly large issue out of the way. You got a better way of going about it? Talk to a Goddamn tranny. See how far you get. I'm sure your reality will always trump mine, so long as you can yap on and on, tell someone they're in psychosis, they can't think for themselves, to let you think for them.

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - No, they don't orgasm. They have no function for it anymore. Women to men have a penis that gets up but it has as much feeling as a strap on. Men to women are worse. Their "vagina" has no nerve endings and they have no clitoris. No orgams anymore. But, maybe that's what you need. Maybe that's part of the psychosis too.

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - Oh, I have actually talked to a post op tranny. That's how I know that he/she actually regretted his/her decision. He/she was genuinely surprised how life didn't get better, how relationships didn't get better and, of course, that sex was now pointless.

iwillkillfrankluntz Says:

May 1, 2009 - Hey kids - try this at home. With a heavy filter. Google "transgender" and "orgasm". Wonko doesn't give a shit, because his small experience must, must, MUST speak for everyone else's, and he'll reiterate until they tell him to fly a kite.

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - From a transgender discussion group: No matter how much I try, even in my least gender dysphoric moments, I am never able to achieve orgasm from genital stimulation. It's not difficulty orgasming - anal stimulation works. I have minimal sexual feeling in my genitalia (even my clitoris). In other words, not only does my female body not fit my gender identity, it doesn't seem to even work. Is this normal for transmen?

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - Also: Do you think this is caused entirely by my gender dysphoria? Do you think there's an actual physical aspect to it (fewer nerves there, maybe?) Another thing is, even though my genitalia have some sexual feeling, just not enough to attain orgasm, my breasts have absolutely none.

Wonko101 Says:

May 1, 2009 - But, hey, go ahead and do whatever your psychosis tells you need to do to make your fanatasies come true about a better life through surgery. By the way, no matter how much penis they so on to you, you'll never actually understand what it is to be male. So, after all of your hrt and surgery, you'll be just as much on the outside as you are now AND will most likely not be able to orgasm. Hmm...sounds worth it?

QueenDingaling79 Says:

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loveplant Says:

Jul 7, 2009 - then that person was not a real transsexual. A real transsexual would rather die than live in a wrong body. That's the way you find a real transsexual.

loveplant Says:

Jul 7, 2009 - Not every physically handicapped woman has to tell the partner about it before any physical contact. In fact, they should never ever tell it at first if they have any self-respect, to life, to themselves. And this is the rule all post-operative transsexual people should follow, and usually do follow.

loveplant Says:

Jul 7, 2009 - It's the partner who should have the tolerance to accept it or not upon discovering. But first and foremost, he should have the respect to understand them for keeping it to themselves. The lie should be forgiven if the circumstances to it are understood, it's about empathy and trying to see things through the eyes of the suffered.

heartu24 Says:

Jul 21, 2009 - this girl was my cousin!! i miss her like crazy!

brennoncwelch Says:

Jul 25, 2009 - are you a transsexual? cuz if not i dont see how you would know.

JoeNJ1 Says:

Aug 15, 2009 - Shute,they love em here in Philthydelphia!

nsullivan3 Says:

Sep 5, 2009 - Never live in Greeley Colorado to many crimes and gangs